So I am fully caught up now... I hope it stays this way, I don't want to overwhelm yall. We are leaving for Agra and Jaipur on Monday though, and I have no idea what the situation is with the internet there. So this could possibly be one of my last posts until I get home. I love you all so much for staying dedicated and reading this. I try my hardest to describe it so you feel like you are here with me. It's wonderful and I am so thankful that I was able to come on this trip!
1/5/10
She stayed for lunch and I sat at her table, which was the best decision I have made thus far. I talked to her about the Pakistan partition and its affect on the women near the border that are abducted between the religions. She told me a story about a friend that was in a similar situation but was offered freedom by a school that paid her tuition and she left her family before they took action against the Muslim community and is now a writer. She alluded to the fact that woman are often killed by their own families as a martyr so that they were not taken by the Muslims, and her friend fled just before this happened to her. I knew that this has happened, but I did not realize that it was a true prevalent problem. We continued to discuss religions in India, and how there is a huge paradox between the lifestyle and the spiritual religion itself. She was telling me that there are many Indians that live the Hindu lifestyle (which is centered around their gods and their rituals) yet denounce any form of a god. She was telling me how it confuses her that people pretend to be religious for the public eye, like during the time of a wedding or funeral, but in their personal lives they do not believe in the gods. I immediately wanted to jump in by saying “Well of course! They are never experiencing these gods and there is nothing directly working in their lives… why in the world would they spend time pursuing something that they do not have a relationship with?” but I didn’t.. lol. Instead I related to her and said that I am equally frustrated with American “Christians” and the fact that the rest of the world thinks we are all spiritually equal Christians that live out the Christian life daily. I explained how the majority of our population does not practice Christianity, and how it is just a label, which is unsettling for those who live our lives for the Lord. I think she enjoyed the fact that we found common ground through the religion and I wanted to be respectful and not offensive. Here in India there is such a turn from Christianity because they do not like that we declare that there is only one God and all other religions are idolatrous. They accept all religions and do not want Christians to tell them that there is only one way. I think that if we would have taken a different approach than the British there would not be such animosity against Christianity because the British used Christianity to criticize Indian culture as a whole to declare their supremacy. I am hoping that my lack of force with Mrs. Gupta left her curious why I did not just try to convert her but wanted to converse with her. I feel like in that situation it was more important to show love and sympathy because she already knows the basis of Christianity and already had a bias in her head against it. I really enjoyed the time that I spent with her.
That afternoon we went to see Gandhi’s memorial, which was rather rambunctious do to the hundreds of school boys running around throwing flowers on us during their field trip. It was a square with a torch in the middle with one of his quotes, and you walked around the square to pay your respects. Unlike all of the other memorials that we have been to where everyone was very quiet and respectful, this one was rather hectic and the boys were not reverential whatsoever. I have noticed that Gandhi is a much smaller figure in India compared to anywhere else in the world. We all know who Gandhi was and we all think he was an amazing activist that sparked American activists like Martin Luther King. Here in India I have barely heard anything about him, which I was not expecting. I thought he would be a modern hero here as well. I wonder if that has something to do with why the Gandhi memorial was not as revered as the other memorials. I really enjoyed seeing his memorial nonetheless.
We then went into Old Delhi where the British originally occupied before they built New Delhi. As we were driving up I noted the complete contrast from the rest of Delhi I had seen and Old Delhi. It had a different lay out with the buildings all squished together, and it was very dark and believe it or not even dirtier than we had seen. It had a pungent smell and everything was run down. According to our book, Old Delhi was once magnificent but over time it was not kept up and has become very run down. We went to see the first Christian Church in India, St. Johns, which we think was Episcopal. It was beautiful and yellow with large pillars and a center dome, which sat among the ugly exterior of Old Delhi. The inside was simple with an old large organ, wooden pews, and only one stained glass window in the front behind the pulpit. It is still in use today, and with the high ceilings I can imagine the acoustics are beautiful when music is played. We also saw where the first British residency was, and the building was probably once beautiful but it was a government building that needed a power white wash and reconstruction. It did not look much different from the other buildings around it.
We then went to Connaught Place for dinner, where we had more free time where I got to shop around a little on my own and navigate around the large circular road that is the center of CP. We then had dinner at a little American and Indian restaurant where our table was talked into buying a bottle of wine that was more expensive than the food we had. Haha… needless to say we all enjoyed our glass (and yes.. I am legally allowed to drink here.. lol). Overall, it was a wonderful day, but my favorite part was the lecture by Mrs. Gupta because I learned so much in such a short amount of time!
1/6/10
After this we were invited to the third largest car show in the world by the family that has a daughter at UVA, the Chaudrys. They have a car business that had a show car, which was a decorated Nano (the new Indian cars that are only 2,000 dollars). He provided us lunch and then let us go and explore the car show. I had no idea what to expect, and I thought we would be sitting in an arena watching cars get paraded around… yeah not so much =) It felt like a fair with tents and cars everywhere that you could go sit in and takes pictures with. There were also give aways and contests. Mariam, Zo, Joi, Kevin and I entered into a contest with JVC systems, and we had to use toilet paper and wrap up our partner like a mummy. I wrapped Kevin and the Indians in the crowd decided that we were the best, and we won! It was kinda exciting because we won bags with t-shirts and leather planners, but then they gave out bags to our whole group later so we all got them. The secret to mummification with toilet paper is that I made Kevin cross his arms and then hold the ends of the toilet paper as I wrapped it for each section that I covered. Everyone else was struggling to get the paper to stay around the person. Although our professor told me that we only won because I was given the benefit of the doubt because Kevin was the tallest one with the most to wrap. Haha. Oh well. I tried. So Mr. Chaudry took us to see the Indian car company TATA, that he said just bought Land Rover and Jaguar so we got to see all of their newest models. It was kinda cool even though I’m not a car person, but my favorite part was seeing the brand new BMW blue convertible…if only ;).
For dinner, Mr. Rai invited us to his house with the other group that was staying at the residency from MIT. I was expecting a bunch of guys, but there were actually 10 girls in a group of 11. They were fun to talk to as a change from the Indians that we have been meeting this whole trip. Mr. Rai’s house was amazing, large, and modern. His backyard was perfectly managed and decorated with fountains, ponds, bridges and flowers. It was very peaceful and you would never know that he lived in the center of Delhi. He was telling us that it’s the only place that you can find a large amount of acres because it is where the politicians live. It was very strange to see this because we have been driving through the most impoverished parts of Delhi these past couple of days, and suddenly we see this billionaire’s mansion that seems secluded from the city but it’s not. I respect Mr. Rai because he really does give his money away to help everyone around him, and his many schools through India that he takes in men and women for free and gives them education, food, and a place to live. I actually met a girl from Venezuela that was nominated for one of Mr. Rai’s program and she was brought to India for a year of education, a living space, and food by him. She was very thankful and she was telling me that Mr. and Mrs. Rai have become like her grandparents and they have her over once a week for dinner. Our Professor then told us that Mr. Rai is letting us stay and eat at the residency for free. Although he does have extreme amounts of money, he is trying to use it to help others, and I respect that. However, I am not sure that the others that lived in this neighborhood in their mansions were the same way. I do not know how you could live in Delhi and flaunt you wealth unless you were working to end the poverty itself.
He was a wonderful host, taking time to talk to each one of us and hear our stories, and he made me eat at least 3 plates of his wonderful food because every time my plate was bare he brought me more. It was really cute because he completely opened his house to a group of about 30 college students and he was very comfortable with all of us. I also got to talk to his wife who is in the hotel business. I told her about our family’s hotel experience and how we have worked for a Sikh Indian family who made a life for themselves through that business as well. She really enjoyed telling me about how fun it is to open a place for people to come and stay when they are in need. They loved being hospitable, and they say that it is what brings them joy when they can extend their wealth towards others. They have it right, but they do not realize that what they are saying is exactly what Jesus taught to a world that did not understand this concept of helping others who are lower than themselves. It is so interesting how Christian teaching has infiltrated all cultures whether they wanted it or not.
1/7/10
Today I began to realize that the trip is more than halfway over, and I have settled in to India so well that I realize that I could probably live here with more ease than I thought at first. It is completely different than my home, but I see the uniqueness of India and it’s beauty that is more internal than the beauty in America. I see it mostly in the people, as I have said many times before. I have been in so many situations, where in America I would have been more fearful and on edge than I am here. Here I feel very safe even in situations where I am walking around in the dark through alley ways, or when we are lost on the side of a large road with beggars all around us. I think it’s because everyone is in similar situations that there is no reason for anyone to attack or steal from another. Maybe I am just being naïve, but I do not even worry about my purse anymore and I carry it just like I would in any mall in America. The people might ask you for money or they may try to sell you something, but when you ask them politely to stop or you look them in the eye and say “I’m sorry, but I do not have anything” then they do stop and go away respectfully. They aren’t trying to scare you or hurt you, they are just trying to survive, but they know you are trying to survive as well (but maybe just in different ways). At dinner I sat with the professor and he was telling me the many opportunities that the government has opened for the poor and homeless families in Delhi. There are many part time jobs of construction that they can pick up in a day and earn money, and that more and more people are getting more money because of these government construction jobs. It turns out that many people we see on the side of the road are doing work on the sidewalks or the road and we just do not realize it because there are not using huge machines. He said that many of the beggars are choosing to beg because at certain places the higher class freely gives away money and food and they do not have to work as hard for it. It still breaks my heart and I know that it is still much worse than he was making it out to be, but I felt better that at least the government is taking steps to end it. I have begun getting a doggy bag of my leftover food from every restaurant we go to and give it to the first beggar that asks me for something that I see. Every time the people look so thankful and it makes me very happy that I can use something that I have enjoyed to help other people as well. Yesterday I collected the leftovers from everyone at the table and had a bunch of bags of food I was able to give to more than one person. Hopefully I can do this more and more while I’m here.
This was the religious experience day, where we went from a Hindu temple, to a Sikh temple, to a Guru’s tomb, to a Sufi shrine. Each was completely different and very beautiful in their own ways, but it was very eerie as you walked through the cold rooms with constant chanting in the background. There were so many devoted people and it really broke my heart. Their devotion is wasted on Satan’s lies to humanity.. and I truly believe that their hearts are seeking for purity while looking at the wrong place. You would only show so much devotion when you believe that you are during the correct thing as opposed to the others who go through life day by day with no purpose at all. At least these people were seeking for something beyond their material life. When I think of them compared to the Americans that live for their own carnal pleasures as “agnostic,” I actually respect these devoted Hindus and Sikh more. I wish that someone will show them the Way and the Truth where their devotion will have results, and where they can have a real relationship instead of a lifeless one with gods that they give human characteristics where they are not perfect and do mess up. How can you rely on a god that you know will not always be perfect and will let you down?
The Sufi shrine was interesting to me because Sufism is a sect of Islam where they pray “I believe in the one true god, and his prophet Muhammed.” I know that it is a controversial concept for Christians because they believe that we have the same God but that Muhammed brought the truth in the Quran to the people. Yes they are violent, and yes they have gone too far when they attack Christians for no reason, but here they say that these actions are not part of the religion but it has been incorporated for political reasons, but it’s not the real religion. I don’t know the truth here, but regardless I feel like they are very similar to the Jewish religion, where they have some parts right but they are missing the important truth, Jesus Christ, the Son of God who God sent to us because He loves us and wants to spend forever with us in a paradise called Heaven. Without this crucial concept, everything else that the Old Testament is impossible to achieve and will always leave you feeling inadequate and sinful. Do Christians try to reach the Muslim faith? Or are we just scared and have reservations because we know that they do not like us? Well, the Romans did not like the Christian faith and were told to kill Christians, yet Spirit filled Christians still pursued them and through God’s power they were able to still leave a lasting impact on the world through the persecution. Why are we not trying harder? It’s like we’ve given up and accepted that there will always be another religion that hates Christians and we will never be able to reach them. Well…. I’m beginning to think the anti-Islam talk that we hear all the time in America is stupid, and it’s time to shower in love and compassion because that is what Jesus calls us to regardless of the consequences.
I am beginning to learn and experience a lot that I needed to spend a lot of time with God in prayer to truly understand what was happening behind my eye’s view. Spiritual warfare is evident all around, however God is so faithful=). I love and miss you all!
Christy<3